![]() ![]() Sexual assault can happen to anyone, even porn stars and sex workersĪs we said, thus far the majority of sexual assault allegations in the #MeToo and #TimesUp movement thus far have been made by actors, actresses and models against big name directors and media figures, but sexual misconduct undoubtedly occurs in all fields: in manufacturing jobs, fast-food chains, all manner of retail and service jobs, creative fields and even in more overtly sexual fields like gay bars, LGBTQ organizations and the porn industry.Str8UpGayPorn was always a fan and a supporter of Tegan Zayne, having covered his work at Raging Stallion and CockyBoys throughout 2016, and even nominating him as Best Gay Porn Star Of 2016 at the end of last year, in a poll voted on here by Str8UpGayPorn readers. Even well-intentioned friends may try to minimize a survivor’s feelings or recollections in an attempt to squash any bad feelings or regret.īut it’s important that we believe people who make claims of sexual assault, partly because: 1) Sexual assaults occurring privately between two people are very hard to prove, 2) only 2% to 10% of rape accusations turn out to be false and 3) the employment and judicial systems actively discourage survivors from accusing their attackers under threat of firing, media exposure and long, costly court battles.ģ. Their assailant may make the survivor feel like it was consensual, invited, their own fault or that any perception of sexual assault is really just post-coital resentment, shame or mental instability. Often, as a coping mechanism, a survivor of sexual assault may question whether what happened was assault or whether they invited it somehow. Gaslighting, the term for when people try to manipulate others into questioning their own sanity, can occur following a sexual assault. There’s a lot to unpack here, but let’s highlight the three big takeaways from the Tegan Zayne rape accusations: Here are the Tegan Zayne rape accusations that Zayne tweeted this weekend: And by no means I’m trying to start a witch hunt - just think y’all should know that this happens in all industries, especially in an all-male one that revolves around sex. As someone else said, “Rape doesn’t exist in this line of work,” and it couldn’t be more true.Īnyway, the person that did this was Topher DiMagio. I’ve seen a lot of stories come out about the #MetToo thing, but it feels like no one cares about the male victims or the sex workers. And don’t be afraid to say no and get violent if you have to. Don’t be afraid to hold someone accountable for their actions. Speak your truth to those willing to listen. If you feel you’ve been wronged, don’t let anyone tell you how to feel. You will be manipulated to think you are the one in the wrong. He will still be getting awards and jobs, so why am I telling this story?īecause it can happen to anyone. Does it matter? Does anyone care? Nothing is going to happen. Maybe having someone cum in your when you repeatedly tell them “no” is not a big deal when you’re a sex worker, Maybe I’m wrong for pointing this out. I haven’t told anyone else this because I’ve struggled with the idea that maybe he didn’t rape me, and maybe I did enjoy it. ![]() The producer apologized, even though they continue to work with him, so how sorry were they really? And my friend at the time told me, “You probably liked it anyways,” and “It’s OK, he’s negative.” I told the people closest to me at the time, the people closest to me at the time. He even complained about how I suck duck, and I got reprimanded and was told evener to deep throat on camera again because no one wanted to see it.Īnyway, I forgave and tried to forget. I had to do my best job and put on a friendly face after that, but the entire time we spent together I was belittled and degraded. Tegan Zayne and Topher DiMaggio, image via CockyBoys Being a professional whore, I follow this guideline to give the best performance for the audience. Now, in porn there is a huge rule and it’s “Don’t cum the night before your scene,” for obvious reasons. I stir myself awake to say hi to him, and he instantly went for it. ![]() I was held asleep with the TV on in the background and he comes in. I tried waiting up to greet him and say hi before jumping right into filming, but he wasn’t showing up. My scene partner and I shared living quarters just for the few nights we would be together for filming. I was working for CockyBoys at the time and was getting ready to film the next day. In a series of Tweets released on Sunday, Jan. ![]() Before and since, both stars have appeared as performers for various porn studios, with DiMaggio serving as a top and Zayne as a versatile bottom. The Tegan Zayne rape accusations, in Zayne’s own wordsĭiMaggio and Zayne both appeared in a CockBoys scene (link NSFW) entitled, “Topher Dimaggio Fucks Tegan Zayne” on Nov. ![]()
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